In order to get a reliable trigger from a negatively switched wiring system, one must take two wires from the headlight, one from the common supply for low and high beam and one from the high beam terminal that will be grounded via the high beam dip switch.
1) Consult an auto-electrician who is well versed in properly wiring to high beam in line with the above.
2) You could add a resistor, or use our H4 CANBUS Decoder: We don't recommend this as the solution as it is basically like applying a band-aid fix to what is otherwise a fundamental problem.
3) Replace your wiring harness with our Plug & Play Smart Wiring